As time went on, we added more monkeys to his collection, and a few of them met their demise (usually a failed cycle through the washing machine and dryer). Benjamin is typically resistant to any new toy at first, but if we gave him a new stuffed monkey it was an immediate success. The monkey game became so popular, I went into auto-pilot mode when we played. Eventually, we added lions to his repertoire as well, though they have never been as exciting as monkeys! One day Benjamin wanted to go back and forth between the two animals. I forgot what I was doing, and the lion started making monkey sounds. Benjamin gave me a quizzical look, and I was encouraged by his perceptiveness.
The monkey game is still popular at our house, especially with Grandma Jan. She has only to enter the front door and Benjamin is waiting for her, monkey in hand, exploding with giggles. Monkeys are such a daily part of life in the Hemminger household that Joelle only has to hear the word "monkey," and she begins bobbing up and down saying "Ooo, Ooo, Ooo!" Some days we hide the monkeys for a while, just to ensure a break from the repetitive play.
Benjamin's initial breakthrough in imaginative play has now become more of a crutch in his play time. The toys and games that have fascinated him for the last few years are beginning to grow dull for him, but he is not yet willing to progress into the next level. He quickly becomes bored and agitated, but he resists attempts at something fresh and new. So what does he ultimately do? He reverts to what is familiar.
My son's life has often served as a parable to teach me valuable lessons, and I have been pondering another one this morning. We all experience different seasons of breakthrough in our lives, whether they are subtle or extreme. Sometimes the breakthrough is internal--a shifting in emotions or mindsets that brings us to a healthier state of being. Sometimes the breakthrough is external--a new opportunity, an increase in provision, a restored relationship. Sometimes the breakthrough is spiritual--a greater understanding of the heart of God or a deeper experience of His presence and power. When breakthrough comes it is fresh and alive, and it is meant to propel us forward. If we "camp out" in our place of breakthrough, over time we will discover that it has become stale and stagnant.
Now, I want to be clear about what I am saying and what I am not saying. I am not saying that we should constantly be moving from thing to thing, place to place, or job to job to stay fresh. That pattern is often evidence of an inner restlessness and lack of stability. I am saying that we should always be seeking to grow in wisdom, maturity, skillfulness, and creative expression. This continual forward motion is what will keep us fresh.
As for my son, I do see forward motion in him, but it is often at a slower pace than I would desire. However, I am so proud of him for the progress he is making and all that he has overcome so far. There is another valuable lesson in this as well. Father God knows where we've been, where we are, and where we are going. What may look like slow progress to some may be significant progress to another. He knows us, and He enjoys us every step of the way!
